You may not be normal, either. In some cases, people feel betrayed when their spouse remarries after their family died. She’s dead, but she’s happy with other girls, her parents are happy. Something like that. Don’t ruin other people’s happiness without foundation. Your brother-in-law was shocked by his wife’s death, and now he’s a new wife, and if he’s abused in the same house with you, would you live with him? And there is no way to know about the abuse case because healthy children tell their parents, not their daily school teacher, what they are happy about. That means there’s no abuse unless you’re a child abuser.There is a tide in the affairs of men Which taken at the flood, leads on to fortune; Omitted, all the voyage of their life Is bound in shallows and in miseries The Chinese use two brush strokes to write the word 'crisis.' One brush stroke stands for danger; the other for opportunity. In a crisis, be aware of the danger - but recognize the opportunity.